Clients often ask Figs this important question when initially reaching out for relationship help. His advice: “Be persistent, but skillful.”
Fiachra "Figs" O’Sullivan is a renowned couples therapist and the founder of Empathi.com. He believes the principles of secure attachment and sound money are the two essential protocols for building a future filled with hope. A husband and dad, he lives in Hawaii, where he’s an outrigger canoe paddler, getting humbled daily by the wind and waves. He’s also incessantly funny, to the point that he should probably see someone about that.
I was 40 years old, walking with my mother on Ocean Beach in San Francisco,
Everybody and their granny’s got a secret or three for makin’ love work: communication, boundaries,
So, you’re feeling resentful towards your partner — or feeling resented by them. You want