Couples therapy
that works.
Out beyond
wrongdoing and
rightdoing,
there is a field.
We will meet you
there.
Get back that
loving feeling
Our team of relationship experts can
help you breathe easy again.
Or start our confidential Empathi Discovery Quiz
to learn about your relationship habits.
Research shows that 86% of couples improve after a brief period of EFT guidance and 73% have maintained their improvements when we check back in two years later.
There is hope for your relationship!
Most people start to feel better by the end of the first coaching session
Research shows that 86% of couples improve after a brief period of EFT guidance and 73% have maintained their improvements when we check back in two years later.
Begin the Empathi Process
using Emotionally-Focused Couples Therapy and the Empathi Method.
Acceptance
The hardest part is just getting started.
Alliance
Feel like you're on the same team again.
Empathy
See the hurt and love behind their reactivity.
Vulnerability
Share the hurt the love behind your reactivity.
Connection
Feel deeply and securely bonded to one another.
Resilience
Rely on your bond to get out of stuck moments.
Acceptance
The hardest part is just getting started.
Alliance
Feel like you're on the same team again.
Empathy
See the hurt and love behind their reactivity.
Vulnerability
Share the hurt the love behind your reactivity.
Connection
Feel deeply and securely bonded to one another.
Resilience
Rely on your bond to get out of stuck moments.


We are
passionate about healing relationships.
- Feel safe to be your true self in life and love.
- Heal from recent or past grief and loss.
- Connect in a deeper and more authentic way.
- Stop having the same argument(s) over and over again.
- Avoid being disappointed in each other so much.
- Recover from infidelity or another breach of trust.
- Get back to experiencing joy, laughter, and fun together.
- Work on your relationship even though your partner doesn't seem available.
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Not ready for counseling?
Get Started with the
Empathi Quiz
Empathi provides a complete set of resources and services for the relationship guidance you need!
Take our short, confidential quiz to learn about your relationship strategies and receive these complimentary tools:
Self-Discovery Report
An individualized report for you and your partner shares key relationship insights.
Relationship Report
A personalized report outlines the steps you can take for a better relationship.
Hints and Exercises
Regular emails tailored to you and your partner provide valuable relationship aids.
Exclusive Offers
Special discounts and deals on Empathi courses and relationship counseling.
Self-Discovery Report
An individualized report for you and your partner shares key relationship insights.
Relationship Report
A personalized report outlines the steps you can take for a better relationship.
Hints and Exercises
Regular emails tailored to you and your partner provide valuable relationship aids.
Exclusive Offers
Special discounts and deals on Empathi courses and relationship counseling.

"With Empathi, Figs has created a fun and creative way to help people feel more connected in their relationship and to become acquainted with the transformational power of Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy."
Dr. Sue Johnson
Creator of Emotionally-Focused Therapy for Couples
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Find the Right Therapy
Services For Your Situation
Marriage Counseling
- Recognize the negative cycles you create together.
- Stop being so disappointed in each other.
- Connect in a deeper and more authentic way.
- Get back to experiencing joy, laughter, and fun together.
- Empathize with each other around stressful conflicts.
- Learn to weather difficult times together.
Couples Therapy
- Stop having the same argument(s) over and over again.
- Recover from infidelity or other breaches of trust.
- Return to a deeper level of intimacy.
- Work on your relationship even though your partner doesn't seem available.
- Navigate life transitions from a place of connection and understanding.
Couples Therapy
for Parents
- Learn to navigate parenting style differences.
- Get "unstuck" from disconnected routines and repetitive arguments.
- Get back in touch with a genuine appreciation for each other.
- Feel like you're on the same team again.
- Build a secure foundation your kid(s) will come to for support and look to as a model.
Individual Relationship
Therapy Services
- Break out of cyclical relationship issues through individual exploration.
- Work through unresolved trauma that's holding you back.
- Discover effective treatments for depression with the right ally and guide.
- Heal stubborn and pervasive self-esteem wounds.
- Become all you can be through a process of self-reclamation.
Empathi Therapy Near You
Find your city or schedule your free consult now and we'll find the right therapist for you!
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Couples Therapy
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- Chicago
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- New York
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Love Matters!
We know how love works and can make your relationship better.
Or start our confidential Empathi Discovery Quiz
to learn about your relationship habits.