Online Intensive Couples Therapy
with Figs & Teale
Make 25 weeks of progress in 3 days. From anywhere.
Intensive couples therapy online, delivered via Zoom. Three-day and five-day intensive couples therapy online options designed for California couples who know something needs to shift. Serving couples throughout California and coaching clients globally. Our intensive couples therapy online program delivers 25 weeks of progress in just 3 days.
See results now.
Seize the day , make incredible, foundational progress in a container of 3 or 5 days.
Exit crisis mode.
Don't just make progress on the messes. Have deeply rewarding transformative experiences.
Maintain your gains.
Refresh or deepen your newfound connection with complimentary intimacy exercises and priority therapist access.
Actually have FUN.
With Figs & Teale, you can forget what you think "research-backed" & "emotionally intensive" are supposed to mean.
Figs & Teale: Wounded Healers
We do not teach this work from a distance. We live it. Both of us have been in the kind of pain that makes you wonder if you chose the wrong person. We have had moments where we did not know if we could stay.
We had no business ever making love and relationship work.
We repaired our marriage. Not theoretically. We lived through rupture and came out the other side. Our marriage is on display in every session. We model what vulnerability looks like.


What Makes the Empathi Method Different
Our approach combines Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with our own clinical innovations. EFT, developed by Dr. Sue Johnson, has an 86% improvement rate. We do not treat your relationship like a problem to solve. You are not going to find a cognitive solution to what is a limbic problem. We work bottom-up: nervous system first, then conversation.
3,000+ Couples. One Core Truth.
We have worked with over 3,000 couples. The underlying pattern is always the same: two people who love each other stopped feeling safe with each other. Our job is to rebuild that safety. Read what our couples say.
Choose Your Intensive
5-Day In-Person Intensive on Oahu
Meet in person with Figs and Teale together. The deepest, most immersive experience we offer. Five full days on Oahu with clinical sessions, processing time, and space to integrate.
- A 5-day intensive couples therapy retreat on Oahu island, where Teale was born and raised.
- Meet in-person with Figs and Teale.
- Personalized Relationship Map
- Conflict Solution Course
- Intimacy Exercises
- Tropical paradise
- Lodging not included
3-Day Virtual Intensive via Zoom
Conducted via Zoom with Figs or Teale. The most convenient and efficient format for intensive couples therapy online. All the clinical depth. From the comfort of your home. For California-licensed couples. Coaching available globally.
- A 3-day online couples therapy retreat conducted via Zoom.
- Meet virtually with Figs or Teale.
- Personalized Relationship Map
- Conflict Solution Course
- Intimacy Exercises
- Tropical paradise
Is an Intensive Right for You?
Sound like a fairytale? With intensive couples therapy online from Figs and Teale, it is ordinary. This is what couples experience after completing our intensive couples therapy online program.
Our intensive couples therapy online approach through Zoom gives you the same clinical depth as in-person work. Intensive couples therapy online allows both partners to stay in one frame, creating the visual co-regulation needed for real breakthroughs.
How Our Virtual Couples Therapy Intensive Works
You probably came here because weekly therapy feels too slow. Our intensive couples therapy online program works best for high-performing California couples, tech founders, executives, and professionals in crisis. Whether you are dealing with an affair, communication breakdown, or emotional disconnection, intensive couples therapy online can help. Partners who tried weekly therapy and felt stuck find that intensive couples therapy online delivers real breakthroughs. Book a free consultation.
Before Day 1: The Prep
We start with assessment and intake. Each partner gets an individual call before the intensive begins. We want to know your real story. Three days is not a cure. It is a breakthrough into a different way of being together.
Day 1: Setting the Container
You will spend 5 to 6 hours helping us understand your competing narratives. We will map your cycle, teach you the architecture of how you got stuck, and start the first physiological shift toward safety.
Day 2: Going Deep
Day 2 is where couples often cry together for the first time in years. We move from “you are the problem” to “we are both hurting because we love each other.” This is the emotional turning point.
Day 3: Integration and the Road Forward
We build a plan for what happens next. We teach you tools for real life. We identify early warning signs. Most couples who complete intensive couples therapy online leave feeling like they have a map and the ability to read it together.

"With Empathi, Figs has created a fun and creative way to help people feel more connected in their relationship and to become acquainted with the transformational power of Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy."
Dr. Sue Johnson
Creator of Emotionally-Focused Therapy for Couples
The Empathi Method in Intensive Format
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Frequently Asked Questions About Intensive Couples Therapy
You know something has to shift. Intensive couples therapy online is designed for people who know something is broken. Our intensive couples therapy online program via Zoom delivers the same clinical depth as in-person work, with the convenience of staying home.
How much does intensive couples therapy cost?
This is NOT for you if: Active domestic violence. Active substance use (30 days sobriety minimum). Currently in an affair and unwilling to close that door. One partner completely checked out.
Is online intensive couples therapy effective?
The question is not whether you can afford intensive couples therapy online. It is whether you can afford not to. Thousands of California couples have chosen intensive couples therapy online with Empathi. Serving couples throughout California and coaching clients globally.
How long does a couples therapy intensive last?
If you are somewhere in the middle, book a free consultation to discuss intensive couples therapy online options. We work with San Francisco Bay Area couples, tech executives, and founders.
What is the difference between a couples intensive and a couples retreat?
Virtual intensive couples therapy online actually works very well. Visual co-regulation is mandatory and the Zoom format keeps you in a contained space together. We have seen intensive couples therapy online produce the same breakthroughs as in-person sessions.
Is intensive couples therapy covered by insurance?
Ready to explore intensive couples therapy online? Learn more about Figs, Teale, and how we got here. Or read reviews from couples we have worked with.
Can we do an intensive if only one partner wants to?
Step 1
Schedule your free virtual consult.
Step 2
Meet with us & book your times.
Step 3
Show up and let us work our magic.
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