Latest Relationship Advice
No, Task Management Won’t Fix Your Relationship
Recently, the New York Times posted an article about how “some couples are using professional project-management software to maintain their relationships.” In a way, it makes sense. Many of the couples I work with get
How to Find a Couples Therapist: What to Look For and Avoid
Finding a couples therapist doesn’t have to be a nightmare. Check out Wendy’s essential guide to picking the right healer for your relationship.
Is Couples Therapy a Bad Sign?
Whether you’re going through a rough patch, have a history of conflict, or just want to improve and deepen your connection, here are 7 truths to help you determine if couples therapy is a bad sign for you.
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Therapist's Picks
How to Actually Fix a Relationship You Ruined: Expert Dos & Don’ts
The following list of dos and don’ts for how to fix a relationship you “ruined” isn’t theoretical. It’s the wisdom I use to help couples every day. As a couples
5 Relationship Quizzes Backed By Science
From the Love Styles Test to Love Languages tests, here are 5 couples quizzes rooted in science.
Empathi's Videos
Why Problem-Solving Doesn’t Stop Arguing
You could have the best problem-solving machine known to humankind, and it wouldn’t fix your relationship.
The Ingredients for Vulnerable Love
The truth is, people in couples therapy with me are already perfectly suited for love, intimacy, and deep connection with each other—that’s why they got together in the first place!
Can the Golden Rule of Improv Help Your Relationship?
Use this therapist-tested improv technique to avoid hitting relationship roadblocks and start having fun together.
Relationship Podcasts
Be The One You’ve Been Waiting For
Relationship expert and couples therapist Figs O’Sullivan gives husbands and wives a resource to feel more connected in their marriage on Empathi with Figs. No matter how strong we are,
Ben and Jen in Love
Figs returns with his third installment of the Who Are You in Love Series. This time, he is joined by couple Ben and Jen and their 4 week old baby
Waiting for Ramen
Figs and Teale are 10 days past their due date, anxiously awaiting the home birth of their second child, Kian. Together they share their vulnerabilities and experiences during this time
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