You can use Figlet, the AI relationship coach built by relationship expert Figs O’Sullivan, inside ChatGPT, Claude and Gemini. Add it once, then ask your relationship question in the app you already use.
The address you will paste:
https://figlet.empathi.com/api/mcpFree. No Figlet account, no sign-in and no payment needed.
What you can ask Figlet once it is added
- Ask Figs a relationship question about love, conflict, trust, attachment, intimacy or repair.
- Name the dance: describe a recent fight and see the pattern that keeps repeating, what each of you protects and what each of you fears.
- Help me repair after a fight: understand what happened for each of you, with practical help for both.
- Get a quick read on your relational wisdom: share a recent fight and get one Wisdom Score insight.
- Take the free Empathi Relationship Assessment on patterns, attachment, communication, conflict and strengths.
- Find a couples therapist or coaching option that fits your state and your concern.
Add Figlet to Claude
Works on every Claude plan, including the free plan (free accounts can add one custom connector).
- Go to claude.ai/customize/connectors (Customize, then Connectors).
- Click Add, hover over Custom, then choose Web.
- Name it Figlet, paste the address above, and click Continue.
- Under Authentication, choose No sign in, then click Add.
- In any chat, click + (or type /), hover over Connectors, and switch Figlet on.
Add it on the web or in the Claude desktop app. It then shows up when you use Claude on your phone.
Add Figlet to ChatGPT
On the web. OpenAI is still rolling this out across plans (it is fully available on Business, Enterprise and Edu). If you do not see Add custom MCP server, your plan does not have it yet.
- Go to chatgpt.com/plugins.
- Click the + button and choose Add custom MCP server.
- Name it Figlet. Under Connection, paste the address above as the Server URL.
- Set Authentication to No authentication.
- Read the warning, select I understand and want to continue, then Create as a plugin.
- Install the plugin. In a chat, type @ and choose Figlet.
Add Figlet to Gemini
Google currently requires that you are 18 or over, in the US, signed in with a personal Google Account (not a work or school account), and have Keep Activity turned on. English only for now.
- On a computer, go to gemini.google.com.
- Click Settings (the gear at the bottom left), then Personal Intelligence. On the Connected Apps card, click Go to Connected Apps section.
- At the top right of Connected Apps, click + Custom.
- In the box called Connect to an MCP server, paste the address above and click Next.
- Read Google’s notice, tick the box to accept the security and privacy risks, then click Connect.
- Gemini confirms that Figs Relationship Expert is connected (that is the name Gemini shows for Figlet). In a chat, type @Figs, choose Figs Relationship Expert, and ask your question.
Custom apps can only be added on the web. Once added, Figlet also works in the Gemini app on your phone. It may not appear in the Installed list on the Connected Apps page; it still works from @ in a chat.
Frequently asked questions
Does it cost anything?
No. Adding Figlet to ChatGPT, Claude or Gemini is free, and you do not need a Figlet account. If you want ongoing coaching that remembers your pattern over time, that is the Figlet AI app itself, where your first 10 messages are free.
What can Figlet see?
Figlet only receives the text the assistant sends it to answer your question. It cannot see your other chats, your email or your files. Each app shows a warning when you add a custom connector; that is standard for any connector that is not yet listed in the app’s own directory. See the Figlet connector privacy policy.
Is Figlet in the official app directories?
Figlet has applied to the official directories for ChatGPT, Claude and Gemini. Once a listing is approved, adding Figlet there will take one click. Until then, the steps on this page work today.
Is this therapy?
No. Figlet is coaching, not therapy, and it is not a substitute for licensed mental health care. If you or someone you know is in crisis, call or text 988 (Suicide and Crisis Lifeline), or call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.
Who built Figlet?
Figs O’Sullivan, Relationship Expert and co-founder of Empathi, built Figlet on 17 years of couples work with more than 3,000 couples. More facts are on What is Figlet AI?
Want coaching that remembers your pattern?
The Figlet app builds on every conversation. Your first 10 messages are free, no credit card.
Steps checked on November 8, 2026: Claude and Gemini in the apps themselves, ChatGPT against OpenAI’s own guide. These apps rename their menus often. If a label has moved, look for “custom connector” (Claude), “custom MCP server” (ChatGPT) or “custom app” (Gemini). Figlet is not related to FIGlet, the ASCII art program.
