Stop Having The Same Fight Over and Over Again...

Stop Having The Same Fight Over and Over Again

In the spirit of not waiting to be perfect to get in front of a camera I did my first online video interview last week on the Blab platform about how I work with people in couples counseling. The interviewer is my friend and life coach Carla Chrzan.

I was super nervous beforehand. Some of my wife’s favorite moments with me are just before I do something new because I look like a scared little 4 year old boy who wants to just hide in her embrace.

Perspective clients: this video may help you have a better sense of me before reaching out and or booking a first session. I cover a lot of material here about the basics of love and relationship from an attachment perspective.

Enjoy!
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Fiachra "Figs" O’Sullivan is a renowned couples therapist and the founder of Empathi.com. He believes the principles of secure attachment and sound money are the two essential protocols for building a future filled with hope. A husband and dad, he lives in Hawaii, where he’s an outrigger canoe paddler, getting humbled daily by the wind and waves. He’s also incessantly funny, to the point that he should probably see someone about that.

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