I made this video to give prospective clients, and anyone curious about attachment-focused couples therapy, a chance to get a taste of how I, and others like me, help people feel more connected in their relationship. I only have so many hours in the week that I can actually sit with couples – I wish […]
Monogamy isn’t the only way to live, but for many of us it’s the best path to the comfort, sense of belonging, and good health and longevity we deeply desire. The human species has developed a variety of relationship styles, influenced by both biology and culture, reflecting the diversity of our social behavior and mating
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If you and your partner keep having the same fight over and over, you are not alone. Repetitive arguments are one of the most common reasons couples seek therapy. The good news is that understanding why you have the same fight over and over is the first step to finally breaking free from the cycle.
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Yes, it’s not about the nail: a couples therapy perspective. It’s about the system we create together when I feel abandoned or rejected and protest or withdraw when I perceive you (rightly or wrongly) as not being there for me in the ways that makes me feel securely connected/emotionally bonded to you. This in turn
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