Stop bitchin’ and start connecting!
Figs O'Sullivan
February 10, 2020
Relationship Tip #3 Sometimes your partner can be a real jerk, but here’s another relationship
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The way you talk about the problem is the problem.
Figs O'Sullivan
February 7, 2020
Relationship Tip #2 Relationship Tip #2: The way you talk about the problem is the
Stop trying to shake off your uncomfortable feelings.
Figs O'Sullivan
January 22, 2020
Relationship Tip #1 Here’s the first of my 10 relationship truths to help you love better.
What is a Fight?
Figs O'Sullivan
August 30, 2017
When I say things like fighting is a good thing or conflict is normal, I mean that if you hurt emotionally when you experience disconnection it means you still love each other. On the other side of conflict is an opportunity to love up those vulnerable parts of each other that surfaced during disconnection.
Considering Couples Counseling?
Figs O'Sullivan
July 17, 2017
5 Things to Look for in a Couples Therapist The majority of us fall into
I Don’t Treat “Patients”
Figs O'Sullivan
March 14, 2017
It’s true that I’ve been practicing psychotherapy for years, but I have never, ever seen
Stop Asking for Your Needs to Be Met
Figs O'Sullivan
August 25, 2016
One bit of advice that has emerged from the last 50 years of the personal
Sometimes You’re an Asshole
Figs O'Sullivan
June 22, 2016
When our partner behaves like an ass, we think they should own their wrongdoing and
Is Monogamy the ONLY Way to be Truly Happy?
Figs O'Sullivan
May 11, 2016
Monogamy isn’t the only way to live, but for many of us it’s the best
We fight because our connection matters
Figs O'Sullivan
January 9, 2016
Yes, it’s not about the nail. It’s about the system we create together when I
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Love Matters!
Figs O'Sullivan
May 17, 2016
I made this video to give prospective clients, and anyone curious about attachment-focused couples therapy,