Figs isn’t a therapist, he is a magician; he is the frigging “Couples Whisperer.” My wife and I were at the verge of separation and already had an appointment with a mediator to sort our complicated life out when, as a “last ditch effort,” I searched for therapists and found Figs here on Yelp and […]
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It is 11:47 on a Tuesday night. Your partner is asleep beside you, or in the next room, or across the country on a work trip that has started to feel like a rehearsal. You have three tabs open. One is a relationship quiz. One is a Reddit thread you have read before. One is
Fiachra Figs O’Sullivan: San Francisco Marriage & Family Therapy Reach the love you’ve longed for. Book Therapy Consult Did you know that couples who… …try to “fix” each other grow in resentment and shame. …”problem-solve” in the short term experience repeat issues. …develop surface-level skills feel helpless against persistent problems. Through this approach, couples can
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You go in and talk about the dishes, or the money, or the in-laws, or sex. The therapist listens. They try to be a referee. They teach you “communication skills.” They tell you to use “I statements.” They help you negotiate a compromise about who picks up the kids. Talk to FigletFigs’ AI relationship coachHere
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Welcome! Today we’re going to talk about the cycle. The system. Or, as some of my clients might call it, “your sh*t show.” In Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), we call it the “negative interactional cycle.” It’s that emotional bonding-driven feedback loop that couples get into together-one that feels really bad for both of them. It’s
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Most couples who end up in my office are not careless with love. They often arrive feeling like couples therapy is not working, or wondering if it ever could. Talk to FigletFigs’ AI relationship coachHere now, ready when you are You follow every communication rule and still feel isolated. Do you know you can get
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A woman in therapy looks at her phone, while her partner stands pensively by the window, highlighting couples therapy in an urban setting. What success does to the nervous system, and why performance stops working at home If you are successful on paper but feel unsettled in your body, you are not alone. Talk to
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As a couples therapy practice in San Francisco, California, I see a recurring pattern among the high achievers who walk through my door. People come here to build things. Companies. Careers. Reputations. Lives that would not have been possible anywhere else. The pace is fast, the standards are high, and the opportunities are real. But
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