Why Do I Feel Like an Option and Not a Priority?
Figs O'Sullivan
September 26, 2026
Watch: Figs O’Sullivan, LMFT explains this. Start free with Figlet. It is 9:40 on a
I Suspect My Husband Is Cheating But Have No Proof
Figs O'Sullivan
September 24, 2026
Watch: Figs O’Sullivan, LMFT explains this. Start free with Figlet. He is asleep next to
How to Stop Overthinking After Being Cheated On
Figs O'Sullivan
September 24, 2026
You stop overthinking after being cheated on by understanding what the looping is for, not
How to End a Situationship When You Want More
Figs O'Sullivan
September 24, 2026
You have drafted the message about nine times. Every version sounds either too casual, which
My Husband Is Not Attracted to Me Anymore. Is It My Body, or Something Else?
Figs O'Sullivan
September 20, 2026
A couples therapist on why a husband stops reaching for his wife, why it is almost never her body, why asking makes it worse, and what to say tonight instead.
My Wife Doesn’t Love Me Anymore. How Do I Know, and What Do I Do?
Figs O'Sullivan
September 19, 2026
A couples therapist on why a wife goes polite and distant, why asking if she still loves you makes it worse, the test for cold versus done, and what to say tonight.
My Husband Starts Fights and Then Blames Me. What Is Going On?
Figs O'Sullivan
September 18, 2026
A couples therapist on why a husband picks a fight and then flips it, why defending yourself proves his point, the line where it becomes manipulation, and what to say tonight.
I’m Losing Feelings for My Boyfriend but I Love Him. Is It Over?
Figs O'Sullivan
September 17, 2026
A couples therapist on why the spark fades even when love is real, the test for whether it is actually over, and what to do tonight before you decide anything.
How Do I Stop Being Limerent for Someone?
Figs O'Sullivan
September 16, 2026
You cannot stop thinking about them and the checklists never hold. Here is what limerence really is, where the line is, and what I tell you to do tonight.
My Partner Is Clingy and I Need Space. How Do I Say It Without Hurting Them?
Figs O'Sullivan
September 16, 2026
A couples therapist on what clingy actually is, why taking space without explaining it makes the clinging worse, and how to ask for air in a way that lands as love.
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