A couples therapist on what constant sexual rejection does to the one asking, why the one saying no is protecting not withholding, and what to say tonight.
A couples therapist on what is actually happening when your boyfriend yells, the line between loud and frightening, and the one thing to say tonight.
A couples therapist on why a husband calls his wife names in a fight, the line between a bad cycle and abuse, and the one thing to say tonight.
Attachment statistics from 58,221 assessments: 58.4% pursuers, 74.1% of couples in pursue-withdraw pairings, and the two fears underneath.
An EFT therapist of 17 years answers honestly: what the outcome research shows for EFT, the Gottman Method, and behavioral approaches, why insight alone rarely changes a cycle, and which couples suit which model.
An honest comparison of Figlet and Lasting from the therapist who built Figlet: education versus being met in real time, and how to know which your relationship needs.
An honest comparison of Figlet and Paired from the therapist who built Figlet: what each app is actually for, who should choose which, and why many couples could use both.
A licensed couples therapist’s honest answer on whether AI relationship coaching works: what real change looks like, where AI must hand off to human care, the state of the evidence, and a two-week test.
A couples therapist’s honest guide to AI relationship apps: what they can and cannot do, the five clinical criteria that matter, and a factual comparison of the leading tools.
If you are asking “why am I unhappy in my relationship,” the most common reason
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